At my home in Kent, where I’m ensconced until the New Year now, it’s beginning to look a lot like winter – frost on the lawn, ice-encrusted puddles, clouds of breath misting the early morning, fires stoked all day long. Having grown up alongside the Mediterranean in a warm country, I confess that the cold seems to penetrate right to my bones. Yet this time of year holds such festivity and ambiance, I cannot resist its allure. An English December is, for me, the very height of romance. So today, I’m sharing with you ten romantic dates for winter, making the best of this season and celebrating all the wonder and romance that it can bring, beyond a runny nose and ice-block feet!

1. A long walk in the open air: Woods or fields, park or beach – whatever landscape appeals to you, pull on those boots, wrap up in layer upon layer of winter woolies and head out into the bracing air. Hold hands as you admire nature and reminisce, steal a kiss in a leafy corner and then return home, pink-cheeked and nicely tired, for a cup of warming hot chocolate.

2. A romantic meal by candlelight: With the nights drawing in by mid-afternoon, you can set a warm, romantic scene for an early supper, or save it for a later meal. A table with two seats set intimately, candles flickering on every surface, some mood music and a delicious, hearty meal – the perfect backdrop before which a touching scene can unfold.

3. A visit to a Christmas market: What woman doesn’t love a shopping trip? But most men find the experience something to grumble about, rather than a romance-inducing event. A traditional Christmas market has such atmosphere, though, and even the grumpiest of shoppers will melt here, with a glass of mulled wine, a hot mince pie and perhaps even accompanying Christmas carols from a brass band. Before you know it you’re heading home with a bag of artisan-created presents, a warm stomach and a singing heart.

4. A drink at an olde worlde pub: On a cold winter’s evening or afternoon, slip away from the hustle and bustle of Christmas shoppers and nestle down in a cosy corner of a traditional pub. The more original features – fireplaces, beams, cubbies – the more heightened the romantic mood. Best of all, seek out a quirky inn. I once had a wonderfully atmospheric drink at Ye Olde Trip to Jerusalem, England’s oldest inn, which is built into the caves under Nottingham Castle.

5. A long lie-in: When bed is the warmest, snuggliest place to be, why go anywhere at all? Take a duvet day, tucking yourself in with snacks and drinks and books and music, then spend the day dreaming together.

6. A trip to see the Christmas lights: Who can fail to get a warm glow when gazing at twinkling, magical Christmas lights? Suddenly, you’re a child again, full of wonder. Take a trip to your local town or city, or head to London for really atmospheric sights.

7. A classic movie: In the run-up to Christmas all the major channels run through their back catalogue of films, and you can rediscover some golden oldies that transport you to the most wonderful, romantic bygone eras. It’s a Wonderful Life is a favourite for me.

8. A home-baking afternoon: We may not be bears, but we humans hibernate somewhat in winter – home calls, and with it delicious comfort food. Lead your partner to the kitchen, don an apron and spend a happy afternoon surrounded by the smells and tastes of baking: mince pies, gingerbread, Christmas cake – whatever takes your fancy. And if a flour fight should ensue, well… what’s a little mess when you’re laughing together?

9. A visit with loved ones: ’Tis the season to be jolly – and sociable. Be hospitable and open your home to friends and family, and make the effort to visit those stuck at home. Although romance is traditionally associated with alone time, in fact being with others can kindle loving feelings too – as you gaze across the room and see your partner patiently laughing at Aunt Morag’s terrible joke, and your heart squeezes as you think how much you love them.

10. A night in before a roaring fire: Last, but certainly not least. A real fire awakens something primitive inside, and creates such ambience. The smell, the crackling, the heat, the soft and flickering light – they’re all natural aphrodisiacs. Heavenly!

Can you add to this list? What would be your ideal wintry date? I’d love to hear your thoughts.